To the friends I've lost....

Hello everyone!

As you get older, you start to learn who your real friends are. And that's great! But it also means that you lose a few along the way..

My dad always says that you can have many acquaintances and people you call friends, but only ever two or three best friends. I never believed him when I was at school because I had a group of at least 20 other people, boys and girls, who I considered to be my best friends. We called ourselves "The Group" and honestly, these people are the most genuinely nicest bunch I have ever met and I am so happy that I got to call them all my friends at some point. 

Now, unfortunately, I understand what my dad was trying to tell me. 

Over the last few weeks, something has happened that has caused me to realise who my true friends are. I'm not going to go into detail about it, but in my opinion it wasn't even the worst thing ever. It could be viewed as bad by some people, but definitely not bad enough to lose friends over. 

My point is, I regret my decisions over the last few weeks because it cost me three of my closest friends. However, I don't regret anything because I have never been happier than I have been these last two months! I've become closer with other friends who I know I could trust with my life; I have had some of the best nights out with these friends; and I have finally started to do things for me and not for anyone else! 

So to the friends I've lost, I hope that one day you can forgive me. I will always be here for you, even when we aren't talking.

And to my friends that I will always have, I love you. 

I now turn to you, the person reading this... 
Don't let a little argument with a friend destroy you - let it make you stronger. You will grow as a person and you will become a better version of you. 

(image found on google images... i.e. I do not own it!!)

Until next time.
Fifs xo

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